Day 7
Whew! Let’s talk about breakups. Now I know this can be a convoluted topic however I want to focus on healthy relationships and drama free endings.
It seems a bit oxymoronic to classify an ending as drama free but it’s not a unicorn. Non-toxic breakups do happen. I have experienced it a couple times.
The last breakup I experienced was drama free, however it was also weirdly awkward. Towards the end of the relationship “Jake” and I hadn’t spoken to each other for about 7 days. Jake had reached out via txt and a couple phone calls but I just wasn’t interested in a resolution.
My point is this… when you arrive at a peaceful existence in your life you just aren’t interested in “closure” or even having certain conversations.
I’m sure that someone may read this and automatically consider me or all parties involved to be childish. This is also where I convey that I don’t need validation in regard to certain decisions.
Jake stopped contacting me and we never crossed paths again. There’s no animosity on my end and if we did ever cross paths and he spoke I would speak back. I harbor no ill will towards him either. Sometimes people just don’t click or just aren’t willing to compromise on certain perspectives and that’s absolutely okay.
What do you think?